Haley is begging him to be the man she wants and needs him to be by spouting all this nonsense and acting up, but instead of putting her in line he's just meekly accepting everything and it is totally turning her off. When she told him to give away the only weapon that could kill them to their enemy, he should have slapped her across the face, bent her over the bed, and taken her from behind! That is what Haley wants and needs! If Elijah doesn't step up and take care of his manly responsibilities Haley is going to wander and we will find her visiting Klaus' bed before the end of the season.