There are (appear to be) folks on here who have tied the knot. So, obviously you’ve been successful in landing your heart’s desire--which clearly means you did some things right.

Since Raj has had so little good luck in that department, I thought I’d Ask-The-Experts to give him some useful, concrete advice.

I know that answerers to such a question tend to drift toward “don’ts”—but, hope there will be some “do’s” thrown in.

(or not) I’m in no position to help; but thought it would be interesting to hear from folks, who unlike Raj, have a clue.